I come from a family that got by, but the biscuits had to be rationed, there was only fresh fruit for the first few days after pay day and I almost always wore hand-me-downs. Now don’t get me wrong – I was always thrilled to see what treasures there were in the garbage bag filled with this cousin or that other relatives clothes that no longer fit them. And by many standards we we’re doing OK. There’s always someone you can think of who’s got less than you.
But I can’t help wonder what kind of beliefs I took on board as a young child that are still with me now. I’ve heard that your beliefs are set by the time you are seven years old. Seven! In fact I wondered about it so much that I had to look into it further. After all, I was intelligent, worked hard, was determined, but many opportunities that I tried to use to created a secure future either failed altogether or were mildly successful. Even financial windfalls would be absorbed by some other circumstance which meant that I had to use the funds in that direction rather than moving forward financially.
So I started researching about belief systems and the power of the sub-conscious mind (where our beliefs reside). Beliefs are formed by the time we are about seven years old. That’s OK when you’re surrounded by people during that time that have empowering beliefs. But if you have people in authority (usually parents and grandparents) around you who have a poverty mentality you will also take on those beliefs.
So what is a “poverty mentality”? It just means that you believe there’s not enough to go round. It’s also called a scarcity mentality. There can’t be enough for everyone to have some. You might recognise some of these phrases that people with a scarcity or poverty mentality will say. They include:
“I just can’t afford it right now”
“We can’t take that trip – it’s just too expensive”
“No, you can’t have that. Do you think I’m made of money”?
“I can’t go out for lunch this time, I’m broke”
And the time aged classic – “Money doesn’t grow on trees”
Language of people with a poverty mentality constantly revolves around lack – not having enough. And that’s just what comes out of their mouths. What’s going on in their mind is far worse. They are constantly thinking about their lack of money… about how they will pay the next bill, or how they are getting deeper and deeper into credit card debt. Unfortunately, by harbouring these constant thoughts of not having enough, they are creating a self-fulfilling prophecy.
Do you recognise this in your thought patterns or language? It could be what’s holding you back from creating abundance in your personal finances. Don’t despair – there are many ways to clear out these negative beliefs about money and replace them with positive and empowering beliefs. The first step is to recognise that you have them.
I’ll be giving some steps to take to turn around the poverty mentality in my next few posts. Then you can work on being abundant, have good things continually coming to you and greatly improve your personal finances.





